matthewnguyen

Girls: Part 2 out of w/e

As i discussed about courtship in my previous post and briefly about a guy's attraction to girls, i'll address the issue of some ways girls act towards guys.

Girls and guys have their own flaws which are unique to each and every individual. Some may include excessive bragging, ignoring those whenever you want and intentionally or even unintentionally hurting those around you with comments. Remember, this is a girls topic so i will be referring to girls not guys, though it doesnt mean guys dont have the same issues as girls, maybe even worse. Some girls realise these flaws while others are oblivious to them, making them more dangerous in certain ways. As an example, if a girl insults guys who are close to her as a friendly gesture, she may unknowingly hurt a guy or guys who will eventually tell her off or even ditch her in order to escape her unintentional bullying. This will lead her to think that she is unwanted, giving her incentive to get the attention of people in hee own way. If she had realised why she was ditched, or understood and accepted her flaws if a person pointed it out, she would learn something valuable and try to change her habits, not herself. A habit does not a person make.

Girls who are regarded as 'sluts' or 'whores' is an interesting matter. Few girls notice if they are acting slutty and why? Because its their behaviour. A good example here if i do say so myself; your car. Whilst in your car, it is compldtely odourless because you're so used to its smell and surroundings. However, entering a person's car you rarely go in, you will either notice a strong odour or even find the odour unbearable. Its all the notion of familiarity. Girls act slutty without knowing so because being slutty is in their nature. Its not to say that once a girl is slutty, she is always slutty. Completely untrue. There was once a girl i knew. She beat me at school and i remember clearly, in year 4, i came first in my class and she came second. She had so much potential and i admired her for her studious nature. But once we both hit highschool, she. hanged for the worse in my opinion. In a desperate attempt to gain popularity and probably attention from guys, she became slutty or a bitch as some would put it. I contrasted her present self with he past self and i was horrified at the changes. Pity and i could only perceive her as a pathetic person was the sole rezult. And her name was J*****. Yes, her, the one who organised the formal. She was just as smart or even smarter than me in primary and now do you or can you picture her being studious and being one of the best in the class? I can't anymore.

Still on the topic of sluttiness, but a different aspect. A girl isn't considered slutty in my opinion if she dresses openly or scarcely. It is the combination of overdoing looks, and attributes which makes someone a slut in my opinion. I really despise girls who act like little kids. Using that fucking high squeaky voice and dancing in a fucking circle or even skipping just makes me want to question myself this; 'why must i witness something that is so fucking annoying, yet i cant do shit' I admit that sluts are powerful, if theyre insulted by me, they have their whole slut group to make up shit about me or even guys who succumb to their charm will be after me. Frankly, if they didnt have that power, id insult them whenever thay talked to me, if they ever did which i doubt. But some people regard people who dress nicely are sluts. Wrong. Because a girl cares about her looks doesnt mean shes a slut. Its ironic. Most pretty girls care a lot about their looks and are called sluts. But girls who dont dress attractively arent worth the time for a guy to admire as i have seen. In my opinion, i dont pay attention to sluts. Or very attractive girls. Too much competition for me so i prefer girls who are kinda pretty and dont stand out. Especially the quiet type :D Studying quietly with a small voice, not wanting to draw attention... heh.