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Guys
I remember having previous posts on how weird girls are, but it's shelved somewhere. Time to mention stuff about guys. Now, of course some will take offence to this, but screw it, my opinion will degrade both guys and girls anyway.

A male. How can they be defined? Too many ways, but let's talk about the heterosexual males in our grade, no offence to homosexuals at all. I'll take a look at some examples, names which i don't mind putting up for display. Just don't link them to this or you will be barraged by my insults. Michael Tran. A nice guy overall, but too cocky. He himself admits it, stating that there can only be one cocky person. Is it his personality giving him a role of a differing personality? Confusing, but here's my explanation. You want to roleplay as a bad girl. So you behave as one. Is it due to you "acting" or "becoming" one solely depended on your personality? Scratch that. The way he interacts with females in general is kinda disrespectful. Now, now, some females like that kind of stuff, but I personally don't. Touching people, whether the hair or through pokes when the mood isn't right (my opinion), is not good.

And publicly and continuously stating the girls he likes, valuing them for their body assets is disgusting. Sure he probably values personality, but he mentions a lot about breast size, ass and all that jazz. In a guy conversation, that's acceptable, but amongst girls? I don't think so. That's when girls start shouting stuff like guys being perverted. You shouldn't really show lots of affection to many girls, be loyal. Look at Howard, he is respected for being a womaniser, but dissed upon for being a player. What's so good about being a player? The only good aspect i can think of is being able to initiate a conversation with a girl without her losing interest too easily.

Before i move on, i'll let you in on a secret. Guys talk about girls. Most guys. Nearly all of my male friends I guess. Yet you don't see us having the same attitude such as Timothy or Michael. We usually seem innocent (LOL) but we have our girl conversations though they arent as perverted as Timothy's or Michael's talks. Mostly on personality, talents and habits. I imagine you girls talk about guys too despite how some of you don't show any interest publicly. Guys can be perverted. Some can't hide that. Some have it leak out now and then. Others are really skillful in concealing it. And the rest just aren't interested.

I think Kwo mentioned about guys being very lustful, but i forgot LOL But along those lines somewhere, I slightly disagree with Kwo on that notion. Love in a girls view, the stereotypical ones bring my imagination to romantic picnics, dates in the park, shopping and that stuff. For guys, it's hanging out with her, enjoying your time with her than sex. There's been scientific info about guys thinking about sex like a massive percentage daily, but i dont remember the statistics. What i do know of is guys will be reluctant to participate in a platonic relationship. I don't have experience in those fields, but I dont know. Somewhere in a manga (shifty) i read, when you love someone, you spend more time with them and all, then you want to get to know them more, hence dates and all, then you want to know them more physically as well, wanting to touch them, to become intimate with them, to show the depth in your relationship and hence sex. I found it. I don't think it is the last thing on their mind. It's something that will be eventually lead up to. Bits and pieces of it are integrated everywhere. Why do you want her to be in a good mood? To receive affection from her. In my opinion, sex should be, SHOULD BE, the ultimate form of love. To be intimate with your loved one and be very close to them physically and mentally, to share experiences and just wake up in the morning with your loved one beside you.

I have a very bad feeling. My thought train is messed up and I have not looked back on what i have written. But i have a feeling. A bad feeling that I wrote something superficial and if i read it again, i would change it. But im not. It's my thought dump. My opinions are influenced by others. Like how my opinion was slightly influenced by kwo's. Not really, but I really too it into consideration, questioned my own thought processes.

Didn't mention anything about guys in there i guess. Should name all my posts rants and stuff. But "Guys" was the topic which began these thoughts of mine converging everywhere. Looking forward to the opinions of others. I really want to know what others think. Why? Because everyone is unique and each opinion is a valued one.





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